2008 Smart Marriage Conference Training

Active Relationships Workshop #210 TOOB

 
 

 

 

2008 Smart Marriage Conference Military TOOB Workshop-  “Active Military Life & Resiliency Skills“

(90 minutes)

 

Thursday Workshops, July 3, 10–11:30am

Workshop # 210

Presented by: Kelly Simpson, MA, Janie Illing, MA

General Description: Created in collaboration with military communities, this skills-based program addresses the challenges of reintegration for singles and couples and provides resilience building tools.

 

Purposes of Workshop:  To provide highlights of skills and tools of the Active Military Life Skills and Resiliency curriculum.  Additionally, to provide selected skills and tools (time permitting) during the 90 minutes that can be used immediately with military personnel.

 

Specific Detail of What will be Covered in Workshop #210:

 

  • Ways to normalize stressors of deployment
  • Skills for deployment-related issues
  • Tools for Transitioning Difficult Emotions in times of war

 

What will you receive for free at this workshop: Selected handouts and tools (not the whole curriculum), published research, and a Demonstration DVD about the curriculum

 

About our Newest Edition: “Active Military Life and Resiliency Skills”

This program is approved by the U.S. Army as part of the Strong Bonds program.  It is researched and results are published.

 

COURSE DESCRIPTION:  The training will certify participants to facilitate the Active Relationships for Military Personnel and Families™ “Active Military Life and Resiliency Skills” developed to meet the specific needs of military members and their families.  Topics covered include (but are not limited to): 

 

q      Normalizing stressors of deployments to alleviate anxiety in seeking assistance

q      Skills for deployment related issues

q      Active Communication Techniques

q      Mapping Emotional Triggers related to incidents encountered during deployment or of life traumas for spouse

q      Conflict Resolution Methods to minimize anger responses

q      Money Personalities—Bridging the Gap between changing and evolving roles

q      Avoiding Financial Power Struggles and learning collaboration and respect

q      Tools for Creating Connections and Strong Bonds even during separation

q      Utilizing, Recognizing and Celebrating Individual Strengths

q      Wise Choices for Relationships and for Self Control and Growth

q      Intentional Connections for Lasting Health/Creating traditions in new places

 

 

What’s included when you purchase the “Active Military Life & Resiliency Skills TOOB”:

Leader guide

Participant workbook

Training video (DVD's) of program lectures

PowerPoint CD

Training assessment to complete for certification

Cost is $549

 

*Participant materials are not included when you purchase the TOOB and will need to be purchased separately for each participant.

 

 

 

How to Purchase the Curriculum and Training Out-of-the-Box Kit:

 

By Check or Credit Card.  The check should be made out to Active Relationships Center.

 

How to Order the Curriculum and Training Out-of-the-Box Kit:

 

Email at: admin@activerelationships.com

 

Phone: 214.369.5717

 

Website: www.activerelationships.com (online ordering available)

*all materials can be purchased at the Healthy Marriage Conference

 

 

 

How can attending Workshop #210 benefit you:

 

  • You will gain a better understanding of whether the Active Military Life & Resiliency Skills is a fit for your community and target populations.
  • You will gain selected tools from the program to use right away.

 

 

FAQs:

 

  1. Am I required to purchase the TOOB kit if I attend?

No.

 

  1. Are there any hidden cost related to materials provided as handouts during the workshop?

No.

 

  1. Is it better to purchase the TOOB kit before or after the workshop?

It is completely up to you!

 

  1. Are live trainings available for this program as an alternative to purchasing a TOOB kit?

Yes!  Visit our website at: http://www.activerelationships.com/trad_creative_training_page.htm

 

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Background:

 

Active Relationships Curricula has been developed from the author’s first-hand experience leading marriage education courses since 1997. The Active Relationships programs are widely utilized in military settings, in federally funded healthy marriage education sites and in faith-based arenas.

 

Janie Illing, MA, will lead the workshop with the assistance of Kelly Simpson.  Ms. Illing brings several decades of experience with military families.  Her most previous assignment prior to retirement included work at USAFE major command supervising family support command-wide on behalf of military families.  Ms. Illing currently serves as special advisor to the Active Relationships Center military program development. 

 

Kelly Simpson, MA a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, is director of the Active Relationships Center in Dallas, Texas a 2006 and 2007 federal HMI award recipient. Recent military work has included trainings for the Army, National Guard and for Air Force Europe. Simpson also serves as Executive Director for the Hispanic Active Relationships Project (H.A.R.P.) and as consultant for HIAS, a national refugee organization assisting refugee agencies in establishing healthy marriage communities. She is nationally recognized for her work with couples to

promote marriage education ranging from communication and resolution, to romance and creating lasting love. A lifetime certified teacher of the deaf, Simpson has blended the best of the best relationships skills for marriage education for youth. She has authored numerous articles and has been featured in national media including NBC Nightly News, FOX, CBS, Wall Street Journal, Dallas Business Journal, Dallas Morning News, and Psychology Today. A frequent lecturer, Simpson has been an author and faculty member of the State Bar of Texas Advanced Family Law Seminar. She conducts international professional trainings for mental health professionals, agencies, military personnel, clergy and lay leaders as well as Active Relationships classes for couples and youth.

 

Train the Trainer Track - (to train other professionals):

 

Train the Trainer tracks are available for qualified applicants. See website or call ARC for details for becoming a trainer for Active Relationships. 877.724.7789

 or email to contact@ActiveRelationships.com

 

Evaluation comments from participants about Active Relationships Military Program:

 

“Excellent program with practical tools to use with military families.” Anonymous, Aviano AFB, October 2007

“This program takes sophisticated research and creates practical exercises practitioners can use in a variety of settings with a variety of clients.” Deanna O Leson, Aviano AFB, October 2007

“This program would significantly improve military family life and make deployments and stress easier to handle and endure through.” Earl M. Guce, RAF Alconbury, February 2006

 

“This is something every person should go to. The information that was learned here can apply to the workplace as well. We had a fantastic time.” Erin Trueblood, USAF Spangdahlem Air Base, Germany, February 2006

“I felt like couples who have been separated for long periods would benefit from this retreat because it will help them refocus on the positives of being married.” Holly Killough, BAMC Retreat, Fort Sam Houston TX, March 2005

“Should make this mandatory for soldiers.” Shelia Edwards, BAMC New Braunfels TX, May 2005

 

“This should be a required course for redeploying soldiers. It was a very good seminar and I think helpful for those soldiers to help them cope with many diverse issues since their deployment.” Gregory McFadden, BAMC New Braunfels TX, May 2005

 

“I know this made not only our marriage but our family stronger!! This was the best and most honest you’ll find! Real life issues! Real solutions and insight into common problems.” Anonymous female, Keeping Marriage During War Seminar Ft. Leavenworth KS, October 2004

“Insight to thought process-patterns in the brain- our triggers PTSD- our attitude can change- we can identify things and adapt. Thankful for the handbook to reference. Great tools and a great learning experience. It forced us to come clean and be honest with each other on the first night. We really made significant progress.” Anonymous female, Keeping Marriage During War Seminar Ft. Leavenworth KS, October 2004

“Very useful! Given the current instability in the world and high probability of deployment, this seminar is invaluable in keeping those solemn marriage vows strong through the soldiers’ return.” David Raugh, Keeping Marriage During War Seminar Ft. Leavenworth KS, October 2004

“Extremely informative and made me aware of my own behaviors that were not beneficial to my relationship and what I could do to change.” Brian Moss, Jeju-do Korea, May 2004

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